ChoclateJelly (28)

If you are tired of all the weave-flicking-finger-snapping -no-number-givin-teeth-kissing -eye-rolling-gold-diggin time wasters...read on Im the realest girl youre yet to meet! What Ive learnt so far So from what you guys have told me and from experience of my own faux pas and also from watching a lot of my female friends Ive learnt a couple of key things. 1)You should never try to change a guy. Instead of finding one who is wrong for you and driving both of you mad trying to make him someone hes not just move on. 2)Accept nobodys perfect. Dont get caught up on the little things. You can missout on a good thing over something really silly. Have realistic expectations and if they are surpassed its a bonus. 3)Have a clear idea of what you really need, as what you really want may not always be benefiticial. Who does she think she is? Ive been told by some friends that Im too picky. I sometimes think that because Im a "thick madame" maybe they think that heavyset women dont have a right to be choosey about who they date but bigger does not a begger make. Im big and particular. Im looking for a guy who is ready to have some deep conversations at times, and wants to just talk sillyness at times. We have to have something in common, we have to have a similar sense of humour and we have to be attracted to eachother. People always talk about how looks are not important and how its all about the personality but its not true, its not how we work as people. If you dont find some attraction in my profile pic i know youre not reading this far. And if I dont find any attraction to your pics guarenteed I wont be messaging back. Some would say thats a shallow way to think about dating. I personally dont think theres anything shallow about knowing what I want, knowing what Im looking for and seeking it. On a real though, I am looking to date, not link. If youre wanting to get to know a very real, kinda silly at times, very loving