just ask ! . . . . not really into bigging myself up on things like this but am looking for a caring honest genuine guy who can make me laugh . . . . sorry to be blunt but i am not into short men or larger build men . . . if i dont reply i am not interested - have tried being nice before and end up with all sorts of odd people constantly sending messages asking me to "please reply back" :o( also if u live miles away what is the point ?!? lol