I've been a practising Domme for a few years now however have always felt a pull towards the kind of control involved before I knew BDSM was even a thing (a core memory from my childhood is calmly explaining to a barbie if they didn't listen to me there would be a spanking!) My ‘style' has evolved through several stages though I'd currently describe it as probably 75% MummyDomme 20% Owner/Slave with a touch of Sadism thrown in there too. I'm looking for someone to train as a submissive with the goal being a longer-term relationship. Not 24/7 (though open for that conversation potentially quite a way down the line) but maybe meeting 3 or 4 times a month. I'm looking for a submissive who will enjoy sex and being dominated but will also enjoy curling up in my arms and watching a movie visiting a new city or going to a concert.
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